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spouse mounted to its assault。 

     Their   repulse   was   a   bitter   humiliation   to   the   PARVENUE   Empress�察�

whose resentment took the form ��along with many other curious results�� of 

opening   the   present   Boulevard   St。   Germain�察  �its   line   being   intentionally 

carried through the heart of that quarter�察�teeming with historic ;Hotels; of 

the   old   aristocracy�察  �where   beautiful   constructions   were   mercilessly   torn 

down to make way for the new avenue。 The cajoleries which Eugenie first 

tried and the blows that followed were alike unavailing。 Even her worship 

of   Marie    Antoinette�察   �between     whom   and     herself  she   found    imaginary 

resemblances�察�failed to warm the stony hearts of the proud old ladies�察�to 

whom it was as gall and wormwood to see a nobody crowned in the palace 

of their kings。 Like religious communities�察�persecution only drew this old 

society more firmly together and made them stand by each other in their 

distress。 When the Bois was remodelled by Napoleon and the lake with its 

winding   drive   laid   out�察  �the   new   Court   drove   of   an   afternoon   along   this 

water front。 That was enough for the old swells� �They retired to the remote 

;Allee   of   the   Acacias�察─  �and   solemnly   took   their   airing   away   from   the 

bustle of the new world�察�incidentally setting a fashion that has held good 

to this day�察�the lakeside being now deserted�察�and the ;Acacias; crowded of 

an afternoon�察�by all that Paris holds of elegant and inelegant。 

     Where     the   brilliant  Second    Empire     failed�察 �the   Republic    had   little 

chance     of   success。    With    each   succeeding     year    the  ;Old    Faubourg; 



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withdrew more and more into its shell�察�going so far�察�after the fall of Mac 

Mahon�察  �as   to   change   its   ;season;   to   the   spring�察  �so   that   the   balls   and 

FETES       it  gave   should    not  coincide     with   the  ;official;   entertainments 

during the winter。 

     The    next   people    to  have    a  ;shy;    at  the  ;Old    Faubourg's;     Gothic 

battlements were the Jews�察�who were victorious in a few light skirmishes 

and    succeeded      in  capturing    one    or  two   illustrious   husbands      for  their 

daughters。 The wily Israelites�察�however�察�discovered that titled sons´in´law 

were     expensive     articles   and   often   turned    out  unsatisfactorily�察    �so  they 

quickly desisted。 The English�察�the most practical of societies�察�have always 

left the Faubourg alone。 It has been reserved for our countrywomen to lay 

the most determined siege yet recorded to that untaken stronghold。 

     It is a characteristic of the American temperament to be unable to see a 

closed     door   without    developing      an  intense    curiosity   to  know     what    is 

behind�察�or to read ;No Admittance to the Public; over an entrance without 

immediately       determining      to  get   inside   at  any   price。   So   it  is  easy  to 

understand   the   attraction   an   hermetically   sealed   society   would   have   for 

our fair compatriots。 Year after year they have flung themselves against its 

closed   gateways。   Repulsed�察 �they  have   retired  only  to   form  again   for  the 

attack�察�but are as far away to´day from planting their flag in that citadel as 

when they first began。 It does not matter to them what is inside�察�there may 

be   ��as   in   this   case��   only   mouldy   old   halls   and   a   group   of   people   with 

antiquated   ideas   and   ways。   It   is   enough   for   a   certain   type   of   woman   to 

know that she is not wanted in an exclusive circle�察�to be ready to die in the 

attempt to get there。 This point of view reminds one of Mrs。 Snob's saying 

about a new arrival at a hotel�此 �I am sure she must be 'somebody' for she 

was so rude to me when I spoke to her�察─�and her answer to her daughter 

when the girl said ��on arriving at a watering´place�� that she had noticed a 

very nice family ;who look as if they wanted to know us�察�Mamma�此─�

     ;Then�察�my dear�察─�replied Mamma Snob�察 �they certainly are not people 

we want to meet� ─�

     The men in French society are willing enough to make acquaintance 

with    foreigners。    You    may    see   the   youth   of   the  Faubourg      dancing     at 

American       balls  in   Paris�察 �or  running     over   for  occasional     visits  to  this 



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country。 But when it comes to taking their women´kind with them�察�it is a 

different   matter。    Americans       who   have   known      well´born     Frenchmen      at 

school     or  college    are   surprised�察   �on   meeting    them    later�察 �to   be  asked 

��cordially   enough��   to   dine   EN   GARCON   at   a   restaurant�察  �although   their 

Parisian     friend   is  married。    An   Englishman's      or   American's     first  word 

would be on a like occasion�此�

     ;Come and dine with me to´night。 I want to introduce you to my wife。; 

Such an idea would never cross a Frenchman's mind� �

     One American   I   know   is   a striking   example   of   this。   He   was born   in 

Paris�察�went to school and college there�察�and has lived in that city all his life。 

His sister married a French nobleman。 Yet at this moment�察�in spite of his 

wealth�察�his charming American wife�察�and many beautiful entertainments�察�

he   has   not   one   warm   French   friend�察  �or   the   ENTREE   on   a   footing   of 

intimacy to a single Gallic house。 

     There   is   no   analogy  between   the   English   aristocracy  and   the   French 

nobility�察�except that they are both antiquated institutions�察�the English is the 

more harmful on account of its legislative power�察�the French is the more 

pretentious。   The   House   of   Lords   is   the   most   open   club   in   London�察  �the 

payment of an entrance´fee in the shape of a check to a party fund being 

an all´sufficient sesame。 In France�察�one must be born in the magic circle。 

The spirit of the Emigration of 1793 is not yet extinct。 The nobles live in 

their own world ��how expressive the word is�察�seeming to exclude all the 

rest   of   mankind���察  �pining   after   an   impossible   RESTAURATION�察  �alien   to 

the   present   day�察  �holding   aloof   from   politics   for   fear   of   coming   in   touch 

with the masses�察�with whom they pride themselves on having nothing in 

common。 

     What leads many people astray on this subject is that there has formed 

around   this   ancient   society   a   circle   composed   of   rich   ;outsiders�察─  �who 

have married into good families�察�and of eccentric members of the latter�察�

who from a love of excitement or for interested motives have broken away 

from   their   traditions。   Newly   arrived   Americans   are   apt   to   mistake   this 

;world; for the real thing。 Into this circle it is not difficult for foreigners 

who are rich and anxious to see something of life to gain admission。 To be 

received by the ladies of this outer circle�察�seems to our compatriots to be 



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an    achievement�察      �until    they   learn    the   real   standing      of   their   new 

acquaintances。 

     No gayer houses�察�however�察�exist than those of the new set。 At their city 

or country houses�察�they entertain continually�察�and they are the people one 

meets toward five o'clock�察�on the grounds of the Polo Club�察�in the Bois�察�at 

FETES given by the Island Club of Puteaux�察�attending the race meetings�察�

or dining at American houses。 As far as amusement and fun go�察�one might 

seek much further and fare worse。 

     It is very�察�very rare that foreigners get beyond this circle。 Occasionally 

there is a marriage between an American girl and some Frenchman of high 

rank。 In these cases the girl is�察�as it were�察�swallowed up。 Her family see 

little of her�察�she rarely appears in general society�察�and�察�little by little�察�she is 

lost to her old friends and relations。 I know of several cases of this kind 

where     it  is  to  be  doubted     if  a  dozen   Americans      outside    of  the   girls' 

connections know that such women exist。 The fall in rents and land values 

has made the French aristocracy poor�察�it is only by the greatest economy 

��and it never entered into an American mind to conceive of such economy 

as   is   practised   among   them��   that   they   succeed   in     holding   on   to   their 

historical chateaux or beautiful city residences�察�so that pride plays a large 

part in the isolation in which they live。 

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