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day。 

     We have changed so radically that even a casual observer cannot help 

being      struck    by    the    difference。     Among       other    most     significant 

;phenomena; has   appeared   a phase of   life that not only  neither of   these 

great men observed ��for the very good reason that it had not appeared in 

their time���察�but which seems also to have escaped the notice of the writers 

of   our   own   day�察  �close   observers   as   they   are   of   any   new   development。   I 

mean the class of Social Exiles�察�pitiable wanderers from home and country�察�

who haunt the Continent�察�and are to be found ��sad little colonies�� in out´ 

of´the´way corners of almost every civilized country。 

     To   know   much   of   this   form   of   modern   life�察  �one   must   have   been   a 

wanderer�察�like myself�察�and have pitched his tent in many queer places�察�for 

they are shy game and not easily raised�察�frequenting mostly quiet old cities 

like   Versailles   and   Florence�察  �or   inexpensive   watering´places   where   their 

meagre      incomes     become     affluence    by   contrast。   The    first  thought   on 

dropping in on such a settlement is�察 �How in the world did these people 

ever   drift   here�拭─  �It   is   simple   enough   and   generally   comes   about   in   this 

way�此�

     The father of a wealthy family dies。 The fortune turns out to be less 

than was expected。 The widow and children decide to go abroad for a year 

or    so�察 �during   their   period   of  mourning�察     �partially  for   distraction�察  �and 

partially ��a fact which is not spoken of�� because at home they would be 

forced to change their way of living to a simpler one�察�and that is hard to do�察�

just at first。 Later they think it will be quite easy。 So the family emigrates�察�

and after a little sight´seeing�察�settles in Dresden or Tours�察�casually at first�察�



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in   a   hotel。   If   there   are   young   children   they   are   made   the   excuse。   ;The 

languages are so important� ─�Or else one of the daughters develops a taste 

for music�察�or   a son takes up   the study  of art。  In a   year or   two�察�before   a 

furnished      apartment      is  taken�察  �the   idea   of  returning     is  discussed�察    �but 

abandoned ;for the present。; They begin vaguely to realize how difficult it 

will   be   to   take   life   up   again   at   home。   During   all   this   time   their   income 

��like   everything   else   when   the   owners   are   absent��   has   been   slowly   but 

surely  disappearing�察  �making   the   return   each   year   more   difficult。   Finally�察�

for economy�察�an unfurnished apartment is taken。 They send home for bits 

of furniture and family belongings�察�and gradually drop into the great army 

of the expatriated。 

     Oh�察�the pathos of it� �One who has not seen these poor stranded waifs 

in   their   self´imposed   exile�察  �with   eyes   turned   towards   their   native   land�察�

cannot realize all the sadness and loneliness they endure�察�rarely adopting 

the country of their residence but becoming more firmly American as the 

years   go   by。   The   home   papers   and   periodicals   are   taken�察  �the   American 

church attended�察�if there happens to be one�察�the English chapel�察�if there is 

not。 Never a French church� �In their hearts they think it almost irreverent 

to read the service in French。 The acquaintance of a few fellow´ exiles is 

made and that of a half´dozen English families�察�mothers and daughters and 

a younger son or two�察�whom the ferocious primogeniture custom has cast 

out of the homes of their childhood to economize on the Continent。 

     I have in my mind a little settlement of this kind at Versailles�察�which 

was a type。 The formal old city�察�fallen from its grandeur�察�was a singularly 

appropriate   setting   to   the   little   comedy。   There   the   modest   purses   of   the 

exiles    found    rents   within    their   reach�察  �the   quarters    vast  and    airy。  The 

galleries and the park afforded a diversion�察�and then Paris�察�dear Paris�察�the 

American Mecca�察�was within reach。 At the time I knew it�察�the colony was 

fairly prosperous�察�many of its members living in the two or three principal 

PENSIONS�察�the others in apartments of their own。 They gave feeble little 

entertainments among themselves�察�card´parties and teas�察�and dined about 

with   each   other   at   their   respective   TABLES   D'HOTE�察  �even   knowing   a 

stray  Frenchman   or   two�察  �whom   the   quest   of   a   meal   had   tempted   out   of 

their native fastnesses as it does the wolves in a hard winter。 Writing and 



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receiving letters from America was one of the principal occupations�察�and 

an epistle descriptive of a particular event at home went the rounds�察�and 

was eagerly read and discussed。 

     The merits of the different PENSIONS also formed a subject of vital 

interest。 The   advantages   and   disadvantages   of   these   rival   establishments 

were�察  �as   a   topic�察  �never   exhausted。   MADAME   UNE   TELLE   gave   five 

o'clock tea�察�included in the seven francs a day�察�but her rival gave one more 

meat   course   at   dinner   and   her   coffee   was   certainly   better�察  �while   a   third 

undoubtedly had a nicer set of people。 No one here at home can realize the 

importance these matters gradually assume in the eyes of the exiles。 Their 

slender incomes have to be so carefully handled to meet the strain of even 

this simple way of living�察�if they are to show a surplus for a little trip to 

the seashore in the summer months�察�that an extra franc a day becomes a 

serious consideration。 

     Every now and then a family stronger´minded than the others�察�or with 

serious reasons for returning home ��a daughter to bring out or a son to put 

into business���察�would break away from its somnolent surroundings and re´ 

cross the Atlantic�察�alternating between hope and fear。 It is here that a sad 

fate   awaits   these   modern   Rip Van Winkles。 They   find   their   native   cities 

changed      beyond     recognition。     ��For   we   move     fast  in  these   days。��   The 

mother gets out her visiting list of ten years before and is thunderstruck to 

find    that   it  contains   chiefly    names    of   the   ;dead�察  �the   divorced�察   �and 

defaulted。;   The   waves   of   a   decade   have   washed   over   her   place   and   the 

world she once belonged to knows her no more。 The leaders of her day on 

whose   aid   she   counted   have   retired   from   the   fray。   Younger�察  �and   alas� �

unknown faces sit in the opera boxes and around the dinner tables where 

before she had found only friends。 After a feeble little struggle to get again 

into the ;swim�察─�the family drifts back across the ocean into the quiet back 

water of a continental town�察�and goes circling around with the other twigs 

and dry leaves�察�moral flotsam and jetsam�察�thrown aside by the great rush 

of the outside world。 

     For the parents the life is not too sad。 They have had their day�察�and are�察�

perhaps�察�a little glad in their hearts of a quiet old age�察�away from the heat 

and sweat of the battle�察�but for the younger generation it is annihilation。 



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Each year their circle grows smaller。 Death takes away one member after 

another of the family�察�until one is left alone in a foreign land with no ties 

around her�察�or with her far´away ;home�察─�the latter more a name now than 

a reality。 

     A   year    or  two    ago   I  was   taking    luncheon      with   our   consul    at  his 

primitive   villa�察  �an   hour's   ride   from   the   city   of   Tangier�察  �a   ride   made   on 

donkey´back�察  �as   no   roads   exist   in   that   sunny   land。 After   our   coffee   and 

cigars�察�he   took   me   a  half´hour's   walk   into   the  wilderness   around   him  to 

call on his nearest neighbors�察�whose mode of existence seemed a source of 

anxiety to him。 I found myself in the presence of two American ladies�察�the 

younger being certainly not less than seventy´five。 To my astonishment I 

found they had been living there some thirty years�察�since the death of their 

parents�察�in an isolation and remoteness impossible to describe�察�in an Arab 

house�察  �with   native   servants�察   �the   world   forgetting�察 �by  the   world   forgot。; 

Yet these ladies had names well known in New York fifty years ago。 

     The   glimpse   I   had   of   their   existence   made   me   thoughtful   as   I   rode 

home in the twilight�察�across a suburb none too safe for strangers。 What had 

the future in store for those two�拭�Or�察�worse still�察�for
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